I don't agree with your analogy. A database is not an consumer product, it's a tool and the people using it are responsible for its appropriate use. To me this

I don't agree with your analogy. A database is not an consumer product, it's a tool and the people using it are responsible for its appropriate use. To me this sounds like the hardware store selling saws, an uneducated consumer coming in and buying one and then going home and cutting their finger off and complaining that the hardware store should sell safer saws. It's your responsibility to educate yourself on proper and safe operation of your tools.