I see where you're coming from on the first sentence. I should have left it at saying his comment seemed to lack empathy. The last sentence I still think is fin

I see where you're coming from on the first sentence. I should have left it at saying his comment seemed to lack empathy. The last sentence I still think is fine though (I include myself in the list of people who don't have the perspective to criticize their decisions, I don't have the context to be constructive). I won't defend the other comment. It's easy to be unnecessarily rude in comments, but I would have said the same were we talking in person. I don't believe in hiding behind anonymity to say something you wouldn't say otherwise. All the same, I appreciate the input.