1) the fact that so-called 'incels' think so lowly of themselves and other fellow human beings as to call for sex redistribution is disgusting. 2) the fact tha

1) the fact that so-called 'incels' think so lowly of themselves and other fellow human beings as to call for sex redistribution is disgusting. 2) the fact that 'incels' are an actual named group with an identity and discussion surrounding them deeply disturbs something within me. I feel simultaneously that free speech must be upheld but that we cannot give these people a platform. This dissonace is uncomfortable. I also feel that identity politics is is generally bad and that it caused this: the emphasis on all experiences and ideas being special and valuable, and the idea that people with similar apolitical characteristics can and should support each other politically, set the stage for this. 3) There is nothing inherently wrong with sex workers or sex robots but I still wish that myself, my friends, and my family never have a need for them. To sum up some thoughts and respond to sibling comments: Sex is beautiful but can be horrifying. So much evil has come from it. It seems to me that it should be a private thing done in moderation. 'Private' could include multiple partners or whatever you're into, and 'moderation' could mean different things for different people, I suppose. But the idea is respect and humility and that is found nowhere in this article. Sex "work" seems like a twisted oxymoron, as does a sex "coach". But both may be practical and necessary, I don't know. I admit this is not really rational argument but an emotional appeal. Is there still room for that in the modern world?