There's a limit to what you can believe you have control over. > If I don't have to care about hurting their feelings, they don't have to care about mine. Tha

There's a limit to what you can believe you have control over. > If I don't have to care about hurting their feelings, they don't have to care about mine. That's something you have to assume initially. The problem is it's only true over time. It's something that may be true at the moment of interaction, or it may be something that is true because of the interaction.