> other peer (the roadwarrior Mac, in this case) should accept it The goal of proposals in not matching - it is finding minimum security both sides agree on. I

> other peer (the roadwarrior Mac, in this case) should accept it The goal of proposals in not matching - it is finding minimum security both sides agree on. I would not accept it, if previously strong settings were suddenly downgraded. I, roadwarrior, have same rights and requirements as any server :)