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The men scared away from courting by the #metoo movement are exactly the kind that should stay out of the dating pool until they are ready to respect women. Goo

The men scared away from courting by the #metoo movement are exactly the kind that should stay out of the dating pool until they are ready to respect women. Good to hear the movement is working.

serf 8y ago
>The men scared away from courting by the #metoo movement are exactly the kind that should stay out of the dating pool until they are ready to respect women. You're so wrong. There is plenty of 'collateral damage' from folks that just want to avoid litigation more-so than they desire a relationship.
- xapata 8y ago
  No, you're so wrong. Sorry, just had to throw it back at you to emphasize how silly it sounds. I'm guessing you're referring to people that want to date their co-workers? Otherwise, it's hard to think of who else might worry about litigation when considering a romantic overture.
  - tajen 8y ago
    Ever heard of this taxi driver in Israel who got hit by a rape accusation, but was able to show the camera records to prove that it was a false complaint and the girl only got upset because the taxi driver told her to stop smoking in the car? Ever heard of so many false accusations from women, that are only used to fire a coworker, a CEO, a boss? Ever heard of couch promotions, where the girl shows her [redacted], only to claim a #metoo later in her career? Ever heard that a man who calls the police against a woman has 50% chances (in France), 70% chances (in USA) and 85% chances (in Israel) that the police takes HIM to custody? Ever heard that accusations are weaponized nowadays? Really, “it’s hard to think of who else might worry about litigation when considering a romantic overture” ??? Pretty much every man, whether or not they actually did anything. You have no idea what kind of terror men live under nowadays. Several times I had to convince male victims of false accusations not to throw a mass murder. That’s the level of injustice that you’re generating against men. It’s as-ton-ish-ing that some people are still ignorant of that. Even most women I meet are aware that the #metoo campaign was disastrous in terms of fairness, justice and legitimacy. And I’m starting to meet many men who never want to work with women. Talk about a success.
    - xapata 8y ago
      I'm male and not terrified, nor even worried about such things. I'm not who this "you" is that you're referring to. Regarding the chances of arrest, that makes sense to me. I suspect the police are rationally responding to the likelihood of violence. Regarding the fellows who are considering mass murder, I suggest you notify the police.
      - tajen 8y ago
        It’s not because you’re not a victim that you should assume everyone is like you. Considering the fact that you “suspect th police does their job”, it might be better not to assume and check directly, because you may be saddened about the difference between what we think happens and the hard truth. > Regarding the fellows who are considering mass murder, I suggest you notify the police. I just told you their story and how it’s possible to prevent their attraction to mass murder, and you’re basically saying “Let’s continue wronging them, and if they feel wronged, let’s put them in the hands of the police.” Your lack of humanity is a blatant display of the state of humanity towards men: None at all. Good lord you’re ignominious.
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tajen 8y ago
This is so closed minded. The men scared are the shy ones, the ones who respect women, the ones who listen to awareness campaigns... the ones that wouldn’t have done any damage anyway. The only ones who are still courting are the stubborn ones, the kind of men who are never touched by any awareness campaign. The potential pigs (and I use this term because it’s the one promoted by the #AllMenArePigs campaign). So, to make it clear (and your condescending tone and narrow mind really helps solving and understanding problems), women are only getting courted by the pigs nowadays, and can’t meet the poetic/shy/humble men who don’t dare breaking the anti-courting laws. Which, from the perspective of women, reinforces the feeling that only pigs exists. Problem solved?

The men scared away from courting by the #metoo movement are exactly the kind that should stay out of the dating pool until they are ready to respect women. Good to hear the movement is working.

serf 8y ago

>The men scared away from courting by the #metoo movement are exactly the kind that should stay out of the dating pool until they are ready to respect women. You're so wrong. There is plenty of 'collateral damage' from folks that just want to avoid litigation more-so than they desire a relationship.

xapata 8y ago
No, you're so wrong. Sorry, just had to throw it back at you to emphasize how silly it sounds. I'm guessing you're referring to people that want to date their co-workers? Otherwise, it's hard to think of who else might worry about litigation when considering a romantic overture.
- tajen 8y ago
  Ever heard of this taxi driver in Israel who got hit by a rape accusation, but was able to show the camera records to prove that it was a false complaint and the girl only got upset because the taxi driver told her to stop smoking in the car? Ever heard of so many false accusations from women, that are only used to fire a coworker, a CEO, a boss? Ever heard of couch promotions, where the girl shows her [redacted], only to claim a #metoo later in her career? Ever heard that a man who calls the police against a woman has 50% chances (in France), 70% chances (in USA) and 85% chances (in Israel) that the police takes HIM to custody? Ever heard that accusations are weaponized nowadays? Really, “it’s hard to think of who else might worry about litigation when considering a romantic overture” ??? Pretty much every man, whether or not they actually did anything. You have no idea what kind of terror men live under nowadays. Several times I had to convince male victims of false accusations not to throw a mass murder. That’s the level of injustice that you’re generating against men. It’s as-ton-ish-ing that some people are still ignorant of that. Even most women I meet are aware that the #metoo campaign was disastrous in terms of fairness, justice and legitimacy. And I’m starting to meet many men who never want to work with women. Talk about a success.
  - xapata 8y ago
    I'm male and not terrified, nor even worried about such things. I'm not who this "you" is that you're referring to. Regarding the chances of arrest, that makes sense to me. I suspect the police are rationally responding to the likelihood of violence. Regarding the fellows who are considering mass murder, I suggest you notify the police.
    - tajen 8y ago
      It’s not because you’re not a victim that you should assume everyone is like you. Considering the fact that you “suspect th police does their job”, it might be better not to assume and check directly, because you may be saddened about the difference between what we think happens and the hard truth. > Regarding the fellows who are considering mass murder, I suggest you notify the police. I just told you their story and how it’s possible to prevent their attraction to mass murder, and you’re basically saying “Let’s continue wronging them, and if they feel wronged, let’s put them in the hands of the police.” Your lack of humanity is a blatant display of the state of humanity towards men: None at all. Good lord you’re ignominious.
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tajen 8y ago

This is so closed minded. The men scared are the shy ones, the ones who respect women, the ones who listen to awareness campaigns... the ones that wouldn’t have done any damage anyway. The only ones who are still courting are the stubborn ones, the kind of men who are never touched by any awareness campaign. The potential pigs (and I use this term because it’s the one promoted by the #AllMenArePigs campaign). So, to make it clear (and your condescending tone and narrow mind really helps solving and understanding problems), women are only getting courted by the pigs nowadays, and can’t meet the poetic/shy/humble men who don’t dare breaking the anti-courting laws. Which, from the perspective of women, reinforces the feeling that only pigs exists. Problem solved?