What I'm saying, though, is putting a dollar figure on things like gay marriage is disingenuous. We have this conception that "value" automatically means that i

What I'm saying, though, is putting a dollar figure on things like gay marriage is disingenuous. We have this conception that "value" automatically means that it can be put in terms of money. Money has value, and events like law changes have value. However, both money and events have wildly varying value to different people. What a dollar is worth to me is different than what a dollar is worth to you, and indeed, what the millionth dollar is worth to me is far different than what the first one is. The problem is this assumption that money is an appropriate expression of value. This is what I reject. It is an abstraction parallel to the bundles of mortgages that American banks were brought down by - putting it into a unit the MBAs and politicians can understand meant losing essentially all the meaning of what was bought and sold, and ignored fundamental fallacies in assumptions made.