Well its kinda both, no? Sometimes aggression is constructive or useful in situations like negotiating. Sometimes it is counterproductive and considered harmfu

Well its kinda both, no? Sometimes aggression is constructive or useful in situations like negotiating. Sometimes it is counterproductive and considered harmful. What I took away from the OP is that we cannot blindly act on our emotions - that having an intermediate, self-reflective and self-questioning step in how we act and think is vital in order to be happy and successful in the world in which we live. And, of course, this includes questioning the self-questioning. Sometimes it's the wrong time to question, and it is the right time to act on unfettered emotion. The question is, when? ;)