> This leaves us at our current state, which is "nobody gets to make the decision." Someone always decides what's right, either yourself or your family or the

> This leaves us at our current state, which is "nobody gets to make the decision." Someone always decides what's right, either yourself or your family or the state (usually via law). You opt in favour of state and conveniently ignore the will of the people who would choose family or "they themselves" because law is not a person and therefore it can decide. That's not at all convincing.