This is a tough one that takes some real work if it happens at all regularly. My experience with this has taught me that it can be extremely helpful to address

This is a tough one that takes some real work if it happens at all regularly. My experience with this has taught me that it can be extremely helpful to address this concern with the person asking for support, in person, and not while actively giving support. It might help to trying coming to an understand about the repetition of certain language being intentional, especially if you can communicate in advance what that language means to you. "I'm listening" has worked well for me.