> That sounds like an example for someone you don’t actually know very well. Not if the reason is you or something you are related too / feel strongly about.

> That sounds like an example for someone you don’t actually know very well. Not if the reason is you or something you are related too / feel strongly about. Sometimes people aren’t ready / comfortable to talk about things, even when you’ve been in a relationship for years. Giving them permission to avoid it avoids a point of contention whih could lead to yours and their frustration.