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> I’ve gotten to the point where I actually view people who listen to others and are open to changing their opinions when confronted with good advice as being m
by drjesusphd 8y ago
> I’ve gotten to the point where I actually view people who listen to others and are open to changing their opinions when confronted with good advice as being much more intelligent than those who are sure they are right about everything all the time.
I also find this to be a useful heuristic. Particularly "How seriously does this person take my ideas? When I'm wrong, do they make an effort to explain why? Are the open to me being right?"
This works best when you're a student or otherwise new to something Obviously, it won't work when you have status over the person; they'll listen to you anyway.