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My first piece of advice may sound weird and a lot of people that haven't been in the situation may not get it, but either choose to try for a relationship with
by SHOwnsYou 16y ago
My first piece of advice may sound weird and a lot of people that haven't been in the situation may not get it, but either choose to try for a relationship with this woman or commit to being her friend. Trying to have it both ways may well ruin your chances at either.
Try to hang out with her outside the biking club. Since you guys share similar interests, this should not be difficult.
"Hey, there is a new band playing at <local venue we both like>, want to hit it up?" or "So there is a charity walk this weekend for <what we both support>, we should go." It is important to go somewhere non-threatening where you both have similar intentions.
Once you're there, it is easy. Ask her a lot of questions about her self (Tip: "What made you decide that?" is a decent fall back question when you have no response).
Try to make her laugh and you should smile often. Use this time to get to know her better.