You're creating or contributing to the problem you say exists, parent above was not refusing discussion and literally asked you what alternative you have in min

You're creating or contributing to the problem you say exists, parent above was not refusing discussion and literally asked you what alternative you have in mind, so he was open to them. But after going several answers deep you still haven't listed any specific complaints and instead complain that nobody discuss them. This really make no sense. So, feel free to explain what specific things you dislike, why, and how else you would have done it, and then people would be able to discuss them with you and exchange opinion. Saying "it's not possible to talk about x" when you don't even try to really isn't the way.