I would postulate that is the definition if immaturity, or at least short-sightedness. Sooner or later people start looking for ways that both can win, in the s

I would postulate that is the definition if immaturity, or at least short-sightedness. Sooner or later people start looking for ways that both can win, in the short term and in the long term. Sometimes that means giving up something you want now for something you want even more later. It takes time to see that though, which is why it’s rare to see in very young people. (I don’t know you personally, so this isn’t directed at you, just a counter argument).