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Your post rings very true for me. I’ve always preferred a more relaxed and methodical approach to “fights,” which makes them more like solution focused discuss
by justwalt 8y ago
Your post rings very true for me.
I’ve always preferred a more relaxed and methodical approach to “fights,” which makes them more like solution focused discussions, and my most recent ex seemed to expect to scream at each other before we could get to the bottom of the issue. It reminded me of the Monty Python bartering sketch. Why cause hurt if you both want to solve a problem?
- DoreenMichele 8y agoI agree with you and I do my best to approach things as communication about a problem, not fighting per se, but a lot of people have life experiences of various sorts that cause them have big feels about various issues and to expect to be crapped on, no matter how they handle it. This means if you are really sincere and decent, you will frequently find yourself paying for past relationships, and not necessarily just romantic ones.