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I did a couple Lifespring courses back in the early 90's at the behest of my dad - which was surprising given he is a staunch Roman Catholic - who found them en
by maroonblazer 8y ago
I did a couple Lifespring courses back in the early 90's at the behest of my dad - which was surprising given he is a staunch Roman Catholic - who found them enlightening. I too found them to be eye-opening. The experiential learning approach was profoundly effective.
E.g. one exercise conducted on the very first day - so that no one really new who anyone else was - involved 5 minutes of wandering around the room in silence, approaching another and looking at them for approx 5 secs. You then had to say one of two things: "I trust you." or "I don't trust you."
There was only one person who I labeled as untrustworthy. I vividly remember his image and that he looked like the stereotype of a used car salesman. However by the end of the seminar I found him to be a smart, witty, sensitive and caring individual. The exact opposite of my initial evaluation.
I knew that one shouldn't "judge a book by its cover" ever since I was little but that experience and others like them in those seminars really set me back on my heels. I still recall it when I have an initial adverse reaction to someone new.
Unfortunately after finishing the 2nd seminar the whole Amway/pyramid-scheme aspect of it kicked in and completely turned me off and I cut ties altogether. However I still think that I might be a little worse off for not having gone through that.
- icantdrive55 8y agoNever forget a EST seminar I was dragged to in the ninties. I really tried to keep an open mind, but it was just a money grab in the end. 1. The very attractive main speaker had a PHD, and let everyone know--at nausium. (After the event, I went up to talk to her, and she claimed it was from Stanford. I called Stanford the next week and she never went there. She was a highly skilled speaker though--weird, but brilliant on EST's part.) 2. A guy in the crowd stood up, and said, "I'm spending this months rent on the down payment for the course." (I think he was telling the truth--sadly.) 3. The women in the back of the room who signed people up after the "religious" seminar, were all paid models. (I just asked one of them. I had a hard time believing such stunning women were just fellow EST members. The one girl I talked with was sent to the event by her agency. 4. The sad part is there are people are still so gullible to just, "Wish it--want it--do it!" By Brian Griffith