If you let your circumstances swamp you and you end up being a victim you don't have the fight to change it. If you have that internal spark to drive you out o

If you let your circumstances swamp you and you end up being a victim you don't have the fight to change it. If you have that internal spark to drive you out of the situation then that drive always stays with you and you keep on riding it. Many people don't and continue in the quagmire. Drifting along as a peaceful and well brought up youth can often continue so you don't have that drive and determination deep rooted in you.