I don't get it. Why did you just stand still while this was happening? This never happened to me because every time someone started to do things without consens

I don't get it. Why did you just stand still while this was happening? This never happened to me because every time someone started to do things without consensus I forced an agreement. You can only blame yourself if you just let these things happen. Writing software doesn't happen in a blink of an eye you know.