Since many wives with high-earning husbands want to work part-time or not at all when they have children, and since husbands with high-earning wives do not have

Since many wives with high-earning husbands want to work part-time or not at all when they have children, and since husbands with high-earning wives do not have the same preference, and since assortative mating by education is increasing, you are not going to have as many women as men with high-powered careers. If that reflects what people want, so be it.