The military takes a binary approach to this. You are married, or you are not. If you are married they will do their best to accommodate the spouse (joint assig

The military takes a binary approach to this. You are married, or you are not. If you are married they will do their best to accommodate the spouse (joint assignments, married housing, healthcare, etc). If you are not married, you get none of that. They highly value commitment. To the nation, to your unit, and to your family.