You're not wrong. It's an insightful observation. It's a meritocratic system, but with fuzzy rules around the merits for reward. There are few people I know w

You're not wrong. It's an insightful observation. It's a meritocratic system, but with fuzzy rules around the merits for reward. There are few people I know whose parents would have treated them according "the most performant of you will get the best of our resources. Ready, set go.", instead of say, trying to help each child grow as much as they need.