I'm not sure why you're being downvoted as it's a legitimate criticism. Most people are barely able to put in any work in a relationship, so it's not surprisin

I'm not sure why you're being downvoted as it's a legitimate criticism. Most people are barely able to put in any work in a relationship, so it's not surprising they won't be able to put in even MORE work to make a polyamorous relationship work (really work, and not just pretend they have one)