Hmm. Why “flaw”? To my mind, it’s just reality. Relationships take work. Intimate relationships take more work. Having a greater quantity of relationships tak

Hmm. Why “flaw”? To my mind, it’s just reality. Relationships take work. Intimate relationships take more work. Having a greater quantity of relationships takes more work. Now, as it happens, I tend to believe that human relationships are the reason to be alive, so I think it’s good for humans to put lots of work into relationships and community (of any sort, regardless of levels of physical intimacy).