> Someone is always unhappy deep down My experience is the same. For married couples that became polyamorous after getting married, in every case I know of (3

> Someone is always unhappy deep down My experience is the same. For married couples that became polyamorous after getting married, in every case I know of (3), the person initiating the polyamorous relationship was able to find outside relationships easily. The person's spouse wasn't able to. After a few years of that arrangement they've all gotten divorced.