The strategy here is: solve the short-term crisis first, so you can buy time to find a good job. Some ways to buy time in the short-term are: - Get a lower pa

The strategy here is: solve the short-term crisis first, so you can buy time to find a good job. Some ways to buy time in the short-term are: - Get a lower paying job even if you are overqualified. Not necessarily development. Work on ridesharing or delivery if you have to. - Raise money, ask for donations (e.g.: gofund.me page). - See if you qualify for welfare benefits. - Sell things. Remember, all of the above is just a temporary, short-term compromise. Then, once you are stable enough, take the time to look for a better job, but do it in a less committed way, e.g.: your wife first then yourself, or something like that.