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So many things could have happened, not everyone is able to save up. Also, it's irrelevant - either you want to help or not. Discussing the "impossibility" of h
by mrleiter 8y ago
So many things could have happened, not everyone is able to save up. Also, it's irrelevant - either you want to help or not. Discussing the "impossibility" of his situation is not yours to judge, seriously.
- IanDrake 8y agoI’m not judging. A cautionary tail could do a lot of good here. Why not let something good come out of the discussion that could prevent others from ending up in this situation? A postmortem of sorts. I could have ended up like this guy, but I found personal finance religion when I was 28. After making six figures for six years all I had was monthly payments equal to my paycheck and not much to show for it. It’s pathetic how many people here leap to pity. The OP wasn’t asking for it.
- mrleiter 8y agoYes, a cautionary tale would be good. It's just the way you phrased it that was bugging me. Also, I was not gunning for pity, nor was OP, true. Still, in such moments kind strangers on the internet who wish you well still feel good I believe. Thanks for clearing it up!