Please be very careful with your next move. Unless there is a huge reason to stay (children, sick parents) then you really should think about what marriage is f

Please be very careful with your next move. Unless there is a huge reason to stay (children, sick parents) then you really should think about what marriage is for you. We don't know you but no loving spouse is going to do that to their partner unless there is an unstated reason on her part. Ask lots of questions.