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It's over. You can either admit it now or wait. But from experience I'm telling you it's over. This is your one life. One trip around the stars.
by goatherders 8y ago
It's over. You can either admit it now or wait. But from experience I'm telling you it's over. This is your one life. One trip around the stars.
- NamTaf 8y agoI agree entirely. That sounds like an absolutely unhealthy relationship if she couldn't be honest with you in the first place regarding where she stood on relocation if you got a job. She basically called your bluff and lied to you, betting (wrongly) that she'd not have to pay it out.
- goatherders 8y agoWhen my first company went down the crapper my now ex-wife said "you had your chance. We are never doing that again. You will get a job like the rest of the world." But before we were married she and I talked often about entrepreneurship and building things and how my path was different. Our marriage was over at that point, but it wouldnt end for several more years. Wasted time.
- ryrobes 8y agoThis. The only decision you have to make now is how much more suffering you would like to endure. A lifetime more - or a chance to have your own life back into your own hands someday... Being in a bad marriage is like being that poor mouse in 'An American Tale'. Looking wistfully up at the night sky, thinking "Somewhere, out there..." (there is a life that doesn't resemble hell / a distorted version of expected reality). Obviously, I'm making a leap here that you aren't some kind of monster or what-have-you and you don't deserve any of this. ; )