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You were very lucky in more ways than the one. That's a great story, though. Those kinds of memories and meaning in your work are priceless. My father was over
by 52-6F-62 8y ago
You were very lucky in more ways than the one. That's a great story, though. Those kinds of memories and meaning in your work are priceless.
My father was overworking most of the time due to his career as a pipefitter for Imperial Oil. He spent two terms unemployed— once when we moved to our small SW Ontario town (long story why), and another during an illness that lasted about a year. Because my mother had left her career in insurance to look after us, our college savings were depleted (the last thing they touched to make payments). I don't remember the times he was unemployed very much. Much of my family was ill at the same time he was and I spent a lot of time looking after them (with my thoroughly tough mother)— otherwise he was driving an 2-3 hours round-trip to the union hall every day to try and find contract work. So I didn't see much of the guy when I was young, and when I did he was exhausted and often cranky. There were some great moments in there, and he still taught me as much as he could while I was there, but I'm just remarking on the work and unemployment and family time thing.
Funnily, I got into programming because my mother had an [name I don't remember] 80286 from her work as an insurance analyst and I dug right into that machine. Then the internet finally came to town...
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Really, thanks for sharing that.
- philipkglass 8y agoYou were very lucky in more ways than the one. Most definitely. I get a bit of existential vertigo when I think about how much of my often-happy life has depended on luck. It intensifies when I consider how many of those lucky circumstances were determined before my birth.
- 52-6F-62 8y agoExistential vertigo— I’m going to have to remember that term
- iagreewithyou 8y agoSame here - I've been trying unsuccessfully to put that feeling into words for 20 years!