Introvert there. Tried to force myself to be extrovert few times. That was a disaster. I was miserable. And it didn't help me find friends or whatever. My adv

Introvert there. Tried to force myself to be extrovert few times. That was a disaster. I was miserable. And it didn't help me find friends or whatever. My advice - be who you're. There's no better way than just NOT pretending to be somebody who you aren't. I learned this the hard way... Now I just have few friends, some of them introverts, some of them not, and I'm happy with that. Other people think I'm weird, arrogant, closed etc. But who cares? Yes, it's a little bit harder to live as you are, but it helps in the long run. Sometimes I go "socialise". At least other people think I'm "socialising". But that's rather grey-hat hacking other people and their networks... P.S. Thrash till death!!