I would say that there's no need to learn how to gel with people you don't like. I'd consider trying to learn how to like others, though, which actually is diff

I would say that there's no need to learn how to gel with people you don't like. I'd consider trying to learn how to like others, though, which actually is different. Find out what others like the way you like things. And talk to them about those things. This will give you something to chat about, teach you something about a subject you didn't know about before, and possibly earn them some respect in your eyes. But beyond that, just seek out people who do share your interests. There are plenty. Me, for example. There are too many people out there who you will get along with great instantly to stress over those who are basically asleep. But when in a pinch, it's good to try and get them to talk about something they can teach you about. Good luck to you. And if none of that works, ping me at daniel@danielmiessler.com, and we can chat physics (I'm an amateur) and metal (old school). Cheers.