> - If you don't have a family, start it ASAP if you can. I'd be a bit cautious recommending this. Sometimes kids are born out of "trying to make something wor

> - If you don't have a family, start it ASAP if you can. I'd be a bit cautious recommending this. Sometimes kids are born out of "trying to make something work" or otherwise using the pregnancy as a fix. 2 of my children were brought into the world this way and I can tell you it didn't help me manage my mental health at all. Just my .02, only the OP knows if this would really be a good idea for them.