I don't think it's a matter of not understanding how SQL selects work etc., it's more that ORMs don't make it easy to find all the places in our code which migh

I don't think it's a matter of not understanding how SQL selects work etc., it's more that ORMs don't make it easy to find all the places in our code which might need this relationship prefetched. The fact that it's often a simple fix once you've found a place like that is something to celebrate, honestly.