You need to double check your interpretations of what I said. If you fail, you fail. If you treat it as a good lesson and learn something from the result, is th

You need to double check your interpretations of what I said. If you fail, you fail. If you treat it as a good lesson and learn something from the result, is that the failure making you learn or is it you? Aside from that, you have described yourself in the remainder of your comment's criticism of me. Go ahead and check out of a real conversation with me even though you don't know a single thing about me. You've already done all the damage. People in the present might be fooled by your pretense to humility and ability to diagnose arrogance, but in the future people will look back on our comments and find it very easy to discern that you don't even know yourself.