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This is great. Another wonderful piece of advice I had read somewhere for similar situations is: "remember that an argument between you and your partner is you
by dwcnnnghm 8y ago
This is great. Another wonderful piece of advice I had read somewhere for similar situations is:
"remember that an argument between you and your partner is you two against the issue rather than against one another"
I think it is a great way to refocus the conversation and work toward a solution.
- minor3rd 8y agoMy personal solution to defuse an argument with the wife is to stick out my tongue and say something stupid. Gets a laugh unless I'm REALLY in trouble, and then it's on to plan B.
- yjftsjthsd-h 8y ago> then it's on to plan B. Run for the hills?
- voiper1 8y agoJohn Gottman calls that a repair attempt.