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> Seeking deep relations exclusively is a mistake Could you elaborate on this, please?

• pavel_lishin 8y ago
  Well, as I said above - why does every friend have to be a best friend? Why does every human connection you make need to be a life-long friendship? If you approach every potential friendship with your sights set on making a best friend for life, you'll inevitably be disappointed, repeatedly - because not every pair of people can strike up a relationship like that. Those relationships also take a fair amount of work and energy - they have to be maintained, and sometimes you don't actually need to put in that much work to get what you want out of a friendship. Sometimes you just need someone to shoot the shit with, and it's perfectly fine to do that with someone who's just a casual acquataince. Sorry if that doesn't make sense, I'm really tired todya.