Thank you, and I*m sorry you have had to experience something simlar. I'm personally doing well. A good amount of time has passed since then (15-16 years), so

Thank you, and I*m sorry you have had to experience something simlar. I'm personally doing well. A good amount of time has passed since then (15-16 years), so lots of positive life changes and healing and stuff. Not so sure about the ex, in part because I lost contact with him some years ago and in part because his suicide attempt was caused by major mental illness. He was on disability last I knew and I was pretty sure he still suffers. But it also wasn't a situation I could stay in. His mental illness kept me there longer than I might have done otherwise, honestly. I hope everyone involved in your situtation has fared well.