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Yes. My ex attempted suicide. I came home from work and found him. I called an ambulance, naturally. The cops came. While the ambulance was taking him away (t

Yes. My ex attempted suicide. I came home from work and found him. I called an ambulance, naturally. The cops came. While the ambulance was taking him away (to the opposite hospital they said they were going), the cops questioned me. The male was rather nice in mannerisms, but the female... She told me it was my fault and berated me for my messy house. I was accused of hiding a meth lab (My house was messy, but it wasn't that bad. Seriously). They asked to search the house. I said no. Seriously, at that point I wanted to go to the hospital. I think if I we were a different race, I wouldn't have been able to opt out of the search. I still hate that female cop.

mywittyname 8y ago
This was my experience as well. I hope you and your ex are doing well now.
- Broken_Hippo 8y ago
  Thank you, and I*m sorry you have had to experience something simlar. I'm personally doing well. A good amount of time has passed since then (15-16 years), so lots of positive life changes and healing and stuff. Not so sure about the ex, in part because I lost contact with him some years ago and in part because his suicide attempt was caused by major mental illness. He was on disability last I knew and I was pretty sure he still suffers. But it also wasn't a situation I could stay in. His mental illness kept me there longer than I might have done otherwise, honestly. I hope everyone involved in your situtation has fared well.