I chime with my anecdote. I was raised with my grandmother/mother combo. In the case of the grandmother (and is a consistent theme back in the time as I know

I chime with my anecdote. I was raised with my grandmother/mother combo. In the case of the grandmother (and is a consistent theme back in the time as I know from others grandmothers of the same generation), when she say "do something" and we say "meh", she only need to LOOK INTENSE at us. Just once.