+1 to pretty much everything you said, in addition I doubled my take-home pay the moment I left the industry. Having a life/spouse and that industry just aren'

+1 to pretty much everything you said, in addition I doubled my take-home pay the moment I left the industry. Having a life/spouse and that industry just aren't compatible in the large majority of cases. Heck, I saw 3 divorces on the last team I worked on.