You are right. But you're also condoning behavior which you're implicitly against(or at least I interpret as you implicitly against) because that's the way thin

You are right. But you're also condoning behavior which you're implicitly against(or at least I interpret as you implicitly against) because that's the way things are, and at least some people are effected by others tossing in and claiming things are good, or allowable, or not cool...and in that condition, accepting the world as cruel will let someone else feel ok being cruel. The internet is mean because the internet is mean. If it were more nice, it would be less mean, and there are interpersonal feedback loops which support that.