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The trend of working crazy hours to save as much as you can, living overly frugal, etc. will not always lead to happiness or fulfillment. This speaks to a comm
by Joeri 8y ago
The trend of working crazy hours to save as much as you can, living overly frugal, etc. will not always lead to happiness or fulfillment.
This speaks to a common fallacy: the notion that happiness is a permanent achievement. Many people believe that you work hard so eventually you can achieve a position where you live "happily ever after". That's however not how the brain works. Happiness is a reward mechanism for effort bearing fruit. Once you stop doing things to become happy, eventually the happiness goes away because the brain adapts to its situation (this also works in reverse, you can get used to surprisingly horrible situations). The trick to being happy all the time is doing new things that make you happy all the time.
- vinceguidry 8y agoThis is just silly. The brain's reward mechanism is a dopamine hit. But that's not all there is to happiness.
- Joeri 8y agoMaybe I'm explaining it wrong, here's someone who actually understands the science explaining why happiness is not and should not be the default state of the brain: https://youarenotsosmart.com/2018/05/21/yanss-128-the-neuroscience-of-joy-comfort-happiness-and-bliss/ https://youarenotsosmart.com/2018/05/21/yanss-128-the-neuros...
- laythea 8y agoThis is so true. A silly example. If you give a child a big bag of sweets all in one go he/she will be very happy for a little bit. But he cannot "consume" that happiness all in one go. The child's happiness level is saturated. So if you spread out the giving of sweets, the kid gets a constant trickle of smaller happy moments. Overall after all the sweets have gone, the kid who got given the sweets one by one, would extract more overall happiness from that bag than the one who had it all in one go.
- kudokatz 8y ago> The trick to being happy all the time is doing new things that make you happy all the time. Achieving "Financial Independence" -- when a portfolio meets all basic income needs -- can greatly enable this. The question is why people postpone their own "freedom" in favor of little wins now like trying expensive restaurants, etc.