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> The optimal time to start work has already passed. This is affecting my life really bad. I've been trying to fight this for years with next to no success. If
by gnulinux 8y ago
> The optimal time to start work has already passed.
This is affecting my life really bad. I've been trying to fight this for years with next to no success. If I pass the optimal time to start a task I find it almost impossible to start after that point. Say, sometimes I know that if I do it a bit faster and maybe sloppier I can still make the deadline but for some unknown reason it's so hard to do it and I go back to procrastinating.
Another similar problem I have with procrastination is "soft deadlines". When something has a deadline but it's not the end of the world if the deadline is passed (say you can still accomplish the task 2 days later and it'll be ok) I find it incredibly hard to do it after the soft deadline. You have no idea how many troubles I collected this way since I kept procrastinating sending important documents to people, government etc... If I send them the day they're due everything is fine; if something comes up, say like scanner breaks, I forget etc... it takes months for me to send that document.
- Jarwain 8y agoTalk to a psych. Too much in this thread is reminiscent of my own ADHD, or some sort of executive function disorder. You might find it to be incredibly beneficial; I know I did.