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In the US, generally speaking, you are free to just start using a new name. I did the opposite, dropping my middle name wherever possible and it has only come u

In the US, generally speaking, you are free to just start using a new name. I did the opposite, dropping my middle name wherever possible and it has only come up once. I even got my current passport issued without my middle name by accident. (I forgot to put my middle name on the application and it was never questioned.)

wccrawford 8y ago
My mother has gone by her middle name for her entire life, with almost everything she signs up for completely omitting that her first name even exists. I kept expecting it to cause her problems, but it doesn't seem to have. Of course, dealing with the government means she has to use her first name sometimes, but that's it.
- Spooky23 8y ago
  You can use any name you want. Anyone who knows me calls me by a nickname that isn't documented anywhere, for reasons too long and too boring to go into. It's worked out for me, as generally speaking, if someone calls looking for someone with my legal given name, it isn't someone whom I want to talk to!
  - mrybczyn 8y ago
    Both of my kids are called by a nickname derived from their middle names! Awesome way to distinguish fake association attacks.
troebr 8y ago
I've been asked about why my boarding pass didn't have the same name as my passport once, back when I didn't put a middle name. I'm from France where we traditionally have 3 first names: <actual first name> <godmother|father's first name> <grandmother|father's first name> (at least that's how I was named). For paperwork purposes in the US I had to make up a middle name so I use my second and third names. Say Albert Bernard Charles Dupont would be: "Albert" "Bernard Charles" "Dupont". This way it's also consistent with my passport. I also don't put my name's accent in most computer systems in the US (é). I have it on Linkedin though, and it trips a surprising amount of automated recruiting emails.
- scrollaway 8y ago
  Same story here, I've stopped using both the accents on my name and my middle name years ago, and gotten used to that now. Been thinking about changing my name to officially not include the accents anymore, I don't even like them anymore.
  - tracker1 8y ago
    Like many other letters and accents, it may in the end be simplified and lost in time, like the thorn and long s.
- jcelerier 8y ago
  > I'm from France where we traditionally have 3 first names: <actual first name> <godmother|father's first name> <grandmother|father's first name> (at least that's how I was named). as a french... euh quoi ?
  - Arkaad 8y ago
    Having multiple middle names is common in France. It doesn't mean that all French do it, though.
albedoa 8y ago
Yes, that last sentence threw me, as using a name for the rest of your life is a good indicator that it was recognized :D I changed my last name to my very different middle name, leaving me with no middle name (and thus no initial, alas!). People who have not changed their names overestimate how much anyone cares. For instance, some credit card companies allow you to change your name online. Then they help to perpetuate the change by reporting it to the credit agencies.

wccrawford 8y ago

My mother has gone by her middle name for her entire life, with almost everything she signs up for completely omitting that her first name even exists. I kept expecting it to cause her problems, but it doesn't seem to have. Of course, dealing with the government means she has to use her first name sometimes, but that's it.

Spooky23 8y ago
You can use any name you want. Anyone who knows me calls me by a nickname that isn't documented anywhere, for reasons too long and too boring to go into. It's worked out for me, as generally speaking, if someone calls looking for someone with my legal given name, it isn't someone whom I want to talk to!
- mrybczyn 8y ago
  Both of my kids are called by a nickname derived from their middle names! Awesome way to distinguish fake association attacks.

troebr 8y ago

I've been asked about why my boarding pass didn't have the same name as my passport once, back when I didn't put a middle name. I'm from France where we traditionally have 3 first names: <actual first name> <godmother|father's first name> <grandmother|father's first name> (at least that's how I was named). For paperwork purposes in the US I had to make up a middle name so I use my second and third names. Say Albert Bernard Charles Dupont would be: "Albert" "Bernard Charles" "Dupont". This way it's also consistent with my passport. I also don't put my name's accent in most computer systems in the US (é). I have it on Linkedin though, and it trips a surprising amount of automated recruiting emails.

scrollaway 8y ago
Same story here, I've stopped using both the accents on my name and my middle name years ago, and gotten used to that now. Been thinking about changing my name to officially not include the accents anymore, I don't even like them anymore.
- tracker1 8y ago
  Like many other letters and accents, it may in the end be simplified and lost in time, like the thorn and long s.
jcelerier 8y ago
> I'm from France where we traditionally have 3 first names: <actual first name> <godmother|father's first name> <grandmother|father's first name> (at least that's how I was named). as a french... euh quoi ?
- Arkaad 8y ago
  Having multiple middle names is common in France. It doesn't mean that all French do it, though.

albedoa 8y ago

Yes, that last sentence threw me, as using a name for the rest of your life is a good indicator that it was recognized :D I changed my last name to my very different middle name, leaving me with no middle name (and thus no initial, alas!). People who have not changed their names overestimate how much anyone cares. For instance, some credit card companies allow you to change your name online. Then they help to perpetuate the change by reporting it to the credit agencies.