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Highly related (no pun intended): "How to make a friend fast" based on research https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14731181 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?
by stared 8y ago
Highly related (no pun intended): "How to make a friend fast" based on research https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14731181 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14731181
When it comes to me, I learnt about the positive aspect of vulnerability from Mark Manson's "Models". It's one of the two key points of this book, after "non-neediness".
- megous 8y agoWhat positive aspect was it? I have a tainted view of vulnerability as I saw it preached for years by someone who turned out to be a world class opportunist and manipulator. Some youtube personality I'll not mention the name of, because he seems to thrive on negative publicity these days. It's one of those human ideas that a zebra would not understand as Sapolsky would say. Try explaining to a zebra benefits of being vulnerable. :)
- rusk 8y agohe seems to thrive on negative publicity these days. Can only be that Canadian guy ... Try explaining to a zebra As pack animals, intra-zebra emotional intelligence is essential for maintaining the cohesion of the herd. Looking from the outside it's hard to see this as all we see is the daily struggle for survival.