I'm just trying to learn through discussion - I thought that HN would be a good place to do it, and that may be my mistake. I'm an interpersonal learner and adm

I'm just trying to learn through discussion - I thought that HN would be a good place to do it, and that may be my mistake. I'm an interpersonal learner and admittedly ignorant on this topic. I have no personal fantasies; I want to understand the truth and that's my only motive.