He would frame my answers in such a way to assign malicious intent, accuse me of trying to siphon data out of the system or maliciously make the system less eff

He would frame my answers in such a way to assign malicious intent, accuse me of trying to siphon data out of the system or maliciously make the system less efficient. "oh! I see, you want to stop the government from looking up drivers' social security numbers..." "no, but that data doesn't need to be in the same table that the civilian website queries from, just in case." "just in case what? Just in case I don't catch you stealing civilian's personal information? Just in case I don't catch your ass performing treason in my goddamn system?!" "no no no, I'm just saying that information should be divided according to where it is expected to be used from, that way if there was ever to be an incident, the more sensitive information is farther away from where the attack surface is" " so you've thought this through, tell me: how are you gonna do it? When I'm not looking, you empty out a government database and sell it to someone. Who? How? When?? Are you gonna make me sit here all day before you tell me?" That type of shit.