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How's that novel coming? Almost done, I'll bet. https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2009/12/how_to_create_motivation_for_2.html https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/20
by dmfdmf 8y ago
How's that novel coming? Almost done, I'll bet.
https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2009/12/how_to_create_motivation_for_2.html https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2009/12/how_to_create_motiva...
- imjustsaying 8y ago>You can do 90% of something, but the last 10% takes years, or never gets done.
- gnl 8y ago> All of those are the same thing: defenses. Abstractly, they are fears of finality. Not finishing means anything can still happen, your identity remains intact: "I'm a writer." > More concretely, they are a form of self doubt not about the success of executing the act which is in your control-- the writing of the book, the asking the girl out-- but of being able to manage the consequences which are not-- the publishing of the novel, sustaining a relationship/finding a burn unit. Brilliant article. Hits home. Thanks.