a) The way I see it is akin to signup pages on websites where the 'option' to allow them to spam you with email is checked by default. Yes it's obvious what th

a) The way I see it is akin to signup pages on websites where the 'option' to allow them to spam you with email is checked by default. Yes it's obvious what the checkmark does and reader beware, but that doesn't make it less underhanded. b) Responsibility is a funny thing -- people seem to think it can only fall on one person. Either it's the girl's fault or it's facebook's fault. In reality the responsibility is on all of us.